How to deal with noisy neighbors during campground quiet time

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Dear RV Shrink:rvshrink
We have been RVing for a long time but recently we had an event that was a new experience for us. I thought we had seen it all, but I was wrong. We were in Silver Springs State Park in Florida and about 10 o’clock at night a group showed up to claim the site next to us.

They were camping in a horse trailer with a loud diesel truck as a tow vehicle. Without exaggeration, it took them over an hour to back it into a wide, straight site, with little to hit except bushes. For awhile I thought it must be the Candid Camera crew trying to get a stir out of us. It was all I could do to keep my husband from going out and parking it for them. They were yelling, “Whoa, stop, hold it, go forward, back to the left, you’re crooked,” and before they were done a few other choice words.

I thought it was humorous after awhile but my husband could hardly stand it. I told him it was all part of the camping experience and that on occasion we would have to deal with stupid people who are clueless when it comes to common sense and quiet manners. He thinks he needs to give classes to those who haven’t figured it out on their own yet. I think that can be dangerous in this day and age. Can you throw in your two cents? —Coiled Spring in Silver Springs

Dear Coiled:
You have to think of those occasions as experiences. You now have a great story to tell around the campfire when you are with fellow campers. Trust me, you have yet to see it all. If you let every inconsiderate camper annoy you to the point of distraction you will take years off your camping life.


Campground life is not a utopian existence, but in my opinion it is close. You will experience a good, even wonderful outcome 95 percent of the time. You can improve those odds as you travel more and learn which camping areas offer less chance of having a close neighbor. Just be thankful you don’t own real estate next to people like the ones you experienced at Silver River. You can always move to another campsite when things become unmanageable.

Some folks have no clue how to back up a rig, but a quiet campground in the dark is no time to learn. Give everyone the benefit of the doubt — you never know what they might have been through before they made it to your quiet little oasis that night. Patience is a virtue. —Keep Smilin’, Richard Mallery a.k.a. Dr. R.V. Shrink

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Joe & Sue Schmidt in scenic San Diego

Re: The coach battery dying from phantom discharges We also tired of continually having to charge our coach battery while the house battery merrily stayed fully charged while plugged into shore power; So we purchased a “battery power balancer” ( About $65 ) and had it installed. ( About $40) . If you’re handier around electricity than I am, you can install it yourself because the diagram and instructions make it look really simple. The box, which does not require any additional power, is about 3 inches square with two wires that attach onto the respective battery poles. Since the… Read more »

Laura
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Laura

We’re serious rvers and have been for more than 15 years. We are thinking seriously about giving it up because of just this kind of incident. At least on cruise ships the management still takes care of oafs and drunkards. I think one must admit it’s oafish to expect others to put up with these things during the late hours of the night. For goodness sake, stop at a Walmart or other busy spot if you’re running late. We’re sitting in a State park on the California coast right now and have been listening to the same baby scream for… Read more »

Linda A.
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Linda A.

I’m a Social Worker and the thought of a baby crying would really bother me. Unless it is a illness or discomfort; a baby should not be allowed to cry that long. I think I would have had to go over and offer a little help. After a day on the road; the baby is as tired as the parents.

Bill
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Bill

Not having been there for this particular group, and assuming they did not appear to be drunk or aggressive, i would probably go out and offer to help. I have done this often before, once for a couple – the husband was recovering from a stroke and could not talk, so they weren’t making much noise but the wife was getting pretty frustrated trying to back the fifth wheel in using his gestures for guidance..

Hazel Lorane
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Hazel Lorane

I agree with Bill. Offer to help. My husband, drove log truck and owned/managed a welding/machine shop, is comfortable asking if he can help. Most people are grateful and we have made casual friends on several occasions. Now, if it’s a group of drunk people….that is a different situation.

My personal opinion is that a CDL license or something similar should be required.

Paulette
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Paulette

We were camped at a very small campground on a river and two of the sites were on a dock. We (and our neighbors) spent two hours watching a couple with a fifth wheeler backing into a dock site. They jockeyed back and forth about twenty-five times, it was a riot. We all pulled out our chairs to watch. Best entertainment of the weekend!

Ellen
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Ellen

RVTravel posted awhile ago that close to a half-million new RVs are expected to be sold this year alone. Among those buyers are tens of thousands of new RVers. We were all there once… learning to back in… at 10 pm it had to have been dark (or close to it)… could have underestimated their drive time… maybe haven’t eaten since breakfast…. could have been sitting in stopped traffic for hours due to an accident… It’s not always the fault of the RVer arriving late. How about a little Golden Rule here?

Lee K Wenk
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Lee K Wenk

While camping in a state park I was subjected to a Sweet Adeline’s
group practicing Mister Sandman badly. At midnight I got up and
asked them if they knew the time. On the way back from the rest
room I heard them calling me rude.
It does make a nice story

Lee Ensminger
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Lee Ensminger

Today, idiots abound. Many people are completely clueless and uncaring about how what they are doing affects others, so I’m unsurprised by this story. Have you travelled by air commercially lately? Probably best to leave them alone, though, and hope they’ll soon be gone, or if they stay, just move on yourself. Life is too short as it is.

Frank
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Frank

how about campground management/staff ENFORCING their “Quiet Time” rule?????????

Darrel
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Darrel

Campground management / staff usually off duty and cannot be found during quiet hours.

eric swenson
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eric swenson

inconsiderate people are everywhere. Do the best you can.