By Cheri Sicard
Starting RV life as a senior can feel both thrilling and overwhelming. Many people imagine endless adventure, but the early days often bring unexpected aches, exhaustion, and sometimes even regret. Finding solutions to common problems quickly can turn things around, leading to a more enjoyable, sustainable lifestyle.
In the video at the end of this post, John, of Gone with John, offers some useful advice and perspectives.
Smart planning sets the tone for the journey
RV living can be wonderful, but only if people plan smart from the beginning. Successful trips come from careful, honest planning. This means knowing what to expect and preparing for real-life use instead of just dreaming about luxury features or impressive rigs.
Many seniors start out by picking an RV that looks great in videos or showrooms. One couple John knows bought a bulky, luxury fifth wheel with fireplaces and fancy layouts then discovered it was:
• Too hard to drive and maneuver
• Stressful to park
• Overwhelming to maintain
After six months, they gave up and lost more than $30,000.
Their mistake? They didn’t try living in the RV before buying, and never thought about how daily life would work.
Choosing the right RV
It’s not enough for an RV to look good. Every person should test the RV like it’s their new home. Here’s a checklist for real-world comfort:
- Sit in every chair and lie on the bed
- Step into the shower and check the space
- Test the stability of steps and entryways
- Reach for cabinets, scan for awkward stretches
- Consider moving around in bad weather
To that I would add, check out the kitchen space. Does it have enough amenities and counter space for your needs?
You’re buying a home, not just a vehicle.
The 3-3-3 rule
I have to say I don’t always abide by this rule. As someone who grew up living on the road as a circus performer, it seems silly to me. I take it more as a good suggestion than a rule. Nonetheless, John says a key to steady energy and enjoyment is the 3-3-3 rule. This approach keeps travel stress low and makes every stop count:
• Drive no more than 300 miles a day
• Arrive at the next site by 3 p.m.
• Stay at least 3 nights
This schedule means there’s more time to rest, enjoy each new spot, and avoid feeling rushed.
Mattress upgrades make a huge difference
Most factory mattresses don’t give enough support. Sleeping on one night after night can wear out backs and spirits. Replacing the mattress led to deeper sleep and better mornings.
I recently upgraded my worn-out RV mattress for this one (ordered from Amazon). Not only is this inexpensive mattress the most comfortable one I have EVER owned (at any price), it has seriously changed my quality of sleep and life for the better. Don’t underestimate the importance of your mattress!
Safety upgrades all seniors should consider
Falls cause the most injuries for adults over 65, and RVs are full of slippery surfaces and narrow spaces. Essential upgrades that boost daily confidence:
• Grab bars near doors and in bathrooms
• Non-slip mats in wet areas
• Motion sensor lights for nighttime
• Wide, sturdy steps with solid handrails
These simple changes turn an RV from a hazard zone into a real comfort zone.
Budgeting for a worry-free RV lifestyle
Ongoing expenses like maintenance, fuel, groceries, propane, and campgrounds can stack up. Setting aside a monthly budget between $1,200 and $1,800 covers regular costs with some for the unexpected. Helpful discounts and work programs include:
- America the Beautiful Senior Pass
- Good Sam
- Escapees
- Passport America
- Work camping for site cost reductions or added income
Caring for pets on the road
A pet’s well-being matters as much as the owner’s. Steps to make travel easier with animals:
• Carry both printed and digital vet records.
• Map emergency clinics along the route.
• Create shaded, comfortable pet spaces inside.
• Use a temperature alert device for pets left in the RV.
• Teach pets to use leashes and adapt to new sounds before setting out.
Daily routine
Keeping some daily constants helps balance the ever-changing scenery:
• Wake up around the same time each day.
• Walk outside and savor coffee.
• Eat simple meals and hydrate.
• Mark the difference between rest and travel days.
Keep health on track
Small routines ground seniors, providing comfort and keeping health on track.
A few habits and preparations keep health from slipping through the cracks:
• Weekly pill organizers
• Printed emergency contact info
• Compact first aid kit
• Know the closest urgent care at each stop.
Sometimes things break, rain falls for days, or plans get off track. These bumps aren’t failures. They’re just part of living on wheels. Staying flexible and keeping a good attitude makes all the difference.
Happy trails and safe travels!
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One thing I’ve haven’t heard any advice on is moving the RV. Should the driver pass away or end up in the hospital and site reservation ended.
EA+ (Emergency Assistance Plus) is an insurance plan that covers “getting you and your loved ones home as quickly and as safely as possible”. While the 1st thought is getting assistance while travelling abroad (it does that), the plan also covers transporting an RV (and pets) back to your home when the covered driver is not able to do so, or for example, has flown home due to a spouse’s medical emergency or death.
My spouse has substantial physical limitations, including vision. If I have an medical emergency, the plan will get us, our RV and our pets home.
Family Rv Assn (FRVA) (formerly FMCA) membership includes emergency assistance for medical problems including family, pets and the Rv to home base. Also a quarterly magazine and discounts as well. Only about a $100. bucks a year for an assn. membership!
Everytime an non-RVing acquaintance talks about buying an RV (of any type), I advise them to kick the sales person out of the unit for 15 minutes. Then go through an accelerated day role playing (with your significant others if they will be part). Lay on the bed, get up and dress (you can leave your clothes on), make and eat a meal, clean up from the meal, spend an evening, use the bathroom, get ready for bed. How much did you bump into each other? Were the things you needed accessible?
Thank you for noting the video and summarizing it, Cheri! (An earlier reference that you made to one of his videos led to me subscribing to his channel.) Routine is a great way to manage stress so long as boredom doesn’t accompany it. Have a great day and safe travels!