RV Travel Newsletter Issue 964

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September 5, 2020
Non-Members (advertising supported) edition


Editor’s corner

With Chuck Woodbury   

Areader whose husband had recently died wrote asking for advice about what to do with her travel trailer. She knew nothing about the RV and decided her days of RVing were over.

It made us wonder what other readers would do upon the loss of a spouse. Would they continue to travel with the RV, or maybe buy a smaller one, or simply sell the RV and be done with RVing?

I have met many single men who lost their spouses, who then carried on. Some fell in love all over again, lucky them. But it seems to me it’s harder for women who lost their husbands. Yes, many want to continue RVing: they jump right in. But others are hesitant, even fearful. I usually refer them to the club RVingWomen.com, where they can meet and network with other women who have “been there.”

What would you do? We’d love to hear your thoughts. The fact is, many of us with significant others will one day face this situation. We welcome your thoughts.

THREE REASONS TO CELEBRATE

I am happy to report that we have now published more than 9,000 articles on this website, and we’re fast approaching 10,000. Our database of subscribers has topped 131,000 (up from 100,000 earlier this year). Also, later this month we will celebrate the 20th anniversary of the first issue of this newsletter. Where did the time go?

MEET YOUR FELLOW READERS

We asked you last week to tell us about yourself. We wondered who reads this newsletter. We know that thousands of you have followed us for a decade or more — and we’ve met some of you. But who else, we wonder, reads what we write week after week? We’d love to meet you. Here’s our first installment of Meet our Readers.

I hope you are enjoying your Labor Day weekend. Stay safe! But please, no drinking and driving! Root beer is okay.

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My Roadside Journal

(about whatever is on my mind, not necessarily RV-related)

What was the happiest day of your life?

By Chuck Woodbury
ROADSIDE JOURNAL

What if somebody asked you this question: “What was the happiest day of your life?” How would you answer? Can you identify one day that, among all the happy times of your life, stands at the very top? If so, would you please describe it to us in 150-250 words and explain why you put it at the top of your list? We’ll post some of your stories for other readers to enjoy. Read more.


Quit struggling with hose and cable hookups at the campsite
Are you tired of struggling to hook up your coax cables, water hoses and other connections when you arrive at your campsite? It’s a snap with Cable and Hose Grips from J Wright Concepts. Save time and frustration! Life is too short to hassle with the little stuff! Learn more or order.


Stories in tomorrow’s newsletter

• RV service centers and stores are out of parts. Now what?
• Does Utah law penalize motorhome owners? Is your state next?
• Tornadoes and RVs: Motorhomer dies in South Dakota.
• 190,000 Ram 1500 pickup trucks recalled.
• RV and RV-related recalls for August.
PLUS: Campground updates • Latest fuel prices • Latest RV recalls • Free and bargain camping locations • Reader survey • and much more …


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Last week’s Tip of the Day in RV Daily Tips Newsletters

What RV advice NOT to ask for on a forum.
A handy TV installation idea for small RVs.
RV weight ratings – What’s the “weakest link in the chain”?
Making your RV grocery budget stretch.
Extend your batteries’ life with proper care.


Clintoons • By Clint Norrell

COPYRIGHT 2020 BY CLINT NORRELL

Losing cell service? Try these tips to reconnect or keep the signal

If you are heading out of town, into the mountains or desert or other remote areas, you might start to see your cell signal dropping off. There goes one bar, and another, and another… And you were JUST about to send that email too… Darn! Here are a few tips to reconnect if your signal seems to be fading away or if the bars keep dropping.

RV sales people: Which customer service approach wins the sale?

By Keith Ward
I’m shopping for my very first RV (gulp). That means tons of Internet research, including forums, YouTube videos, etc. It means budgeting, and not buying more RV than I can afford. It also means talking to multiple RV sales reps. And boy, they are not all the same. … I’ve been working with two reps in particular, representing the top contenders for the travel trailer I’m going to get. I’m shocked at how different the reps are, and how much better one is than the other. Read more.

Walking sticks provide surprising bonus to your exercise routine

One challenge for RV enthusiasts is how to efficiently store sometimes bulky exercise equipment. Walking sticks can be stored about anywhere. Folding bikes and collapsible kayaks help define the axiom of big things in small spaces. But there’s another likely unheralded option — walking sticks. They’re available in fixed length, adjustable styles and folding varieties and are ideal for campground walkabouts or more adventurous treks. Continue reading.

Weird and Wacky RVs for September 5th

Okay, it’s time for our latest installment of weird, wacky and maybe even wonderful (depending upon your definition of that word) recreational vehicles. We can state once again with confidence that these are all one-of-a-kinds. They didn’t roll off a production line looking like this. Check ’em out!


Don’t swelter in your RV anymore!
At RVtravel.com we don’t see too many products that we go nuts over, but the SoftStartRV is a game changer. Here’s what it can do:
• Run two air conditioners on a 30-amp hookup.
• Run one air conditioner using only a small portable generator.
• Run one air conditioner on 20-amp household current.
• Run an air conditioner or two using your onboard inverter system. Read more.


Last year at this time, these were the most popular articles

You’ll laugh at this!
Do you leave your porch light on?
Most RVers keep to themselves
Runaway trucks get new option – Catch ’em in nets



Brain Teaser

In what scenario does 8+8=4?

(Shhh. Don’t give it away. Answer in tomorrow’s Sunday News newsletter.)


Reader Poll

How passionate are you about learning the history of your country?

Please let us know. After you click your response, you’ll see how others have responded. Feel free to leave a comment. We’ll post the final results in next week’s newsletter. CLICK HERE

The most popular poll in this past week’s RV Daily Tips newsletters:
Do you wear a mask in public? See how 2,500 other RVers responded.


Our secret to finding the best places in a new town

By Barry Zander
My wife, Monique, was prepared for the worst, her teeth already clenched in anticipation. She knew that I was about to make some stupid remark to the sales clerk as I tried on a funny hat and made some asinine attempt at humor. But the clerk was ready to console her. She reached over and, as she gently patted Monique’s arm, she said softly, “Don’t worry, Dearie. I’ve got one at home just like that!” Read more for Barry’s great tip.

New blog: Crowded campgrounds

RV Travel readers chime in with their stories, and we try to make sense of how to deal with the huge influx of new RVers competing for a mostly unchanging number of places to stay. Read the third installment of this weekly blog, including a letter from reader Daniel Briggs, who has some ideas not only about the overcrowding, but possible solutions.

My new favorite tool: I’ve solved so many RV issues with this gadget!

By Nanci Dixon
My new favorite tool was just delivered. It is a Digital Inspection Endoscope that allows me to see into very tight, small, dark spaces. It is two cameras at the end of a long, 16 ft. cable connected to a viewing monitor so I can see exactly what the cameras see. This thing is cool! Find out some of its many uses here.

Time to pull out your Instant Pot! Try this delicious soup recipe

By Nanci Dixon
In a recent poll, 37% of you responded that you have an Instant Pot® but don’t use it very often. Same with me! I love my Instant Pot but don’t use it nearly enough. I am not a great cook – heck, I’m not even a good cook – but almost everything I make in the Instant Pot comes out great. And it even saves on propane and keeps the RV cooler than cooking on the stove. Read more, then try the recipe and let us know how you liked it.


JUST PUBLISHED
Two new guides to free campgrounds

Roundabout Publications has teamed with the Ultimate Public Campground Project. Discover thousands of designated camping areas in the West and in America’s Heartland —real places – not big box store parking lots. Included are areas managed by various agencies – federal, state, local, etc. Learn more about West edition or Heartland edition.


Would you eat roadkill?

In many states you can… Most counties in Washington state allow elk and deer that have been killed by motor vehicles to be salvaged and consumed. Many other states also allow this practice. Read more and then please participate in the included poll and let us know if you would eat roadkill. (Editor’s tip: This might be a good use for your Instant Pot – see above.)

7 handy uses for RV shelf liner you probably haven’t thought of

Most RVers are familiar with the cushioned shelf liners that protect our dishware when we travel and bump down the road. Beyond lining shelves to cushion and grip objects, the leftover pieces can be used for a lot of things around the RV. Learn about some of them here, then please add your tips in the comments below the article.

Airstream Touring Coaches – What you need to know – Part Four

This is Part Four of a four-part series entitled What You Need To Know About Airstream Touring Coaches. In this series, Andy Pargh, The Gadget Guru, interviews Justin Humphreys, the Vice President of Sales of Airstream, Inc. This segment includes a discussion of RV quality control issues, Airstream’s relationship with Thor Industries, is there a shortage of Sprinter chassis, and much more. Note: This is not a commercial and no payments were provided Andy for the production of this video. Watch Part Four here.

Don’t swat this wasp! It’s on a (good) mission to eat and destroy

Among the frustrations of camping is dealing with insects that like to bite us, sting us, or just annoy us. Well, here’s one little wasp you might run across that you should just leave alone. It’s on a mission, doing good. Read more.


The handiest lights you’ll ever haveRV Travel Newsletter Issue 913
This 6-pack of tiny, battery-powered LED “Button Lamps” is just what you need for your RV’s closets and storage spaces. The tiny lamp is ultra-bright and has all the power of a normal-sized lamp. Backed with a strong adhesive, these little lamps will stick to any surface. They’re waterproof and good to have in case of an emergency. Learn more or order.


Popular articles from last week

Campground Crowding. Discussion for August 29, 2020.
The camper who did this should be thrown in jail.
Try this easy DIY trick to trap fruit flies (watch the video, it works!).
A sad warning about flimsy step stools.
Thought about working the sugar beet harvest? This might convince you.
The pandemic: The bad news, the good news, and the feel-good news.
New TV commercial promotes RVing. What do you think?
This video could save you from danger during a tire blowout.
RV Tire Safety: “Cold inflation pressure” and clarification of tire terms.
RVelectricity – Can I run my air conditioner from batteries?
RVelectricity – Running an air conditioner from battery power – Part 2.
What if disaster strikes and you can’t get back to your RV?
Building an RV park: Stress and more stress, but Max brightens our days
Reader letter: Worried about crowded campgrounds this summer.
Masks required in 34 states. Are people wearing them?
Amazon CamperForce: Quick cash, tough work.
Campground Chatter with Janet Groene, August 29, 2020.
and much more.


SWELL CONTEST OF THE DAY

How would you like to win this Open Fire Popcorn Set? Well, this might be your lucky day! In one of this past week’s RV Daily Tips Newsletters we published a secret phrase. Simply email the phrase to us at RVcontests@gmail.com . We’ll select a winner at random out of all entries we receive today (September 5, 2020) by 11 a.m. Pacific time. Remember, you can only enter once and after we notify you by email that you won, you have 24 hours to respond or we’ll give the prize to someone else.

LAST WEEK’S WINNER of the Retro RV Cutting Board was Terry Roznos of Whittier, California. The previous week’s winner of the NOAA Weather Alert Radio was Ron Schafer of Indianapolis, Indiana.



Resources

Where to complain about bad RVs, dealers, service, RV parks. This is an ever-expanding list of resources where you can report, share or discuss your problems with RV manufacturers or dealers.

Best Club for RVers: Escapees. Click here to learn more or join. Endorsed by RVtravel.com.

Directory of RV parks with storm shelters
In case you’re on the road with your RV and the weather report is showing a tornado headed your way, have this list handy.

RV Clubs
Check out our Directory of RV Clubs and Organizations.

What does financing an RV for 20 years REALLY mean?
In case you missed this article the first time around, here it is again. Important! Click here.

Stuck with a lemon RV? Contact Ron Burdge, America’s premier RV lemon law attorney.


A wonderful alternative to crowded RV parks
Stay overnight for free at more than 1,040 wineries, farms, breweries, etc.! Harvest Hosts members can taste great wines and micro-brews, eat fresh produce and stay in peaceful settings far from the crowds. Save 15 percent on a membership by using code HHFRIENDS15 at checkoutLearn more


RV Electricity

RVelectricity Facebook group hits 10,000 members … and more great news!

Dear Readers,
Just a few nights ago my RVelectricity Facebook group hit 10,000 members. Woo hoo! And that means we have a winner for the Southwire meter kit giveaway, which I’ll announce shortly. Yes, I know a lot of you don’t use or like Facebook due to security concerns, but for my RV electricity projects it’s still a great way to communicate with a lot of RVers quickly. …

Read how you can learn from the RVelectricity group even if you don’t want to join Facebook. And what’s that thing hanging out of Mike’s mouth? Oh, and what’s the new book he’s writing? Find out all of that and more here.

This week’s J.A.M. (Just Ask Mike) Session: Be prepared for a converter/charger failure

Dear Mike,
I’m stuck at a campground and can’t get my hydraulic levelers to work or my slides to retract. Also the lights inside of the RV are really dim and my monitor panel says the battery is dead. How can that be since I’ve been plugged into shore power for days? —Stuck in Duck (NC) 

Read Mike’s response.

Read Part 1 of Mike’s series on Boondocking Power Requirements, sponsored by CarGenerator™, here. NOTE: CarGenerator will keep your household essentials running for up to 70 hours when your power is out due to any blackout, natural or otherwise.


New to RVing or know someone who is? Sign up for our Beginner’s Guide to RVing Newsletter. Reader Robert McG says, “Wow. Really enjoy the crisp format and valuable information, thank you!” Sign up here.


RV Tire Safety

Tires are more than just round black things

By Roger Marble
A question came up about the maximum speed recommendation as published by Goodyear, Michelin, and Bridgestone for tires in RV use. To help clarify: Many times the “application” or use of an item results in it having additional or different limitations or ratings. Learn all about them here.


RV Short Stop

“Chihuly Garden and Glass” sparkles in Seattle Center

“Chihuly Garden and Glass” sits in the shadow of the Space Needle in the Seattle Center. Since 2012, this long-term exhibition of Dale Chihuly’s work has featured gallery spaces, a sculpture garden and a glasshouse designed by the artist. Many of the works are in open areas and are outdoors. (A review on TripAdvisor says it’s worth going to Seattle just to see this.) Read more.


HUGELY POPULAR
Time for a new water filter?
Walk around any RV park and you’ll see this inexpensive blue water filter attached to the fresh water hose on seemingly every other RV. They are THAT popular! The filter will reduce bad taste, odor, chlorine and sediment. It filters out bacteria and is low-lead certified. It comes with a very handy flexible hose protector. This is the most popular RV water filter on the market. Learn more or order.


RV Fire Safety

Steps to extinguish a fire

There is a simple way to remember the steps to using your extinguisher to fight a fire — it’s called the P.A.S.S. procedure. These are the four steps to follow:

  • Pull the pin: This unlocks the operating lever and allows you to discharge the contents of the extinguisher.
  • Aim low: Point the nozzle or hose at the base of the fire.
  • Squeeze the lever above the handle: This discharges the extinguishing agent. Releasing the lever will stop the discharge.
  • Sweep from side to side: Moving carefully toward the fire, keep the extinguisher aimed at the base of the fire and sweep back and forth until flames appear to be out.

Courtesy: Mac “The Fire Guy” McCoy

Museum of the Week

Photo by @laurenquinnphoto, Instagram

National Civil Rights Museum at the Lorraine Motel

Memphis, TN

A somber visit to the National Civil Rights Museum will take you right to the place beloved Martin Luther King Jr. was assassinated, the Lorraine Motel. The museum is built around the motel, with exhibits taking you through the Civil Rights Movement and Dr. King’s life. Watch more than 40 short films, listen to audio tapes and recordings, and see photos that tell a story of an era that’s feeling all-too familiar. Visit the museum website here to plan your visit.


Readers’ Pet of the Day

“Our boy, Ramsay, is one of the biggest reasons we purchased our 5th wheel, so he can always come with us – as you can see on the back of the rig!” — Pam MacDonald

Pets featured in this past week’s RV Daily Tips:
• Monday: Boaz • Tuesday: Harley • Wednesday: Precious • Thursday: An anonymous Aussie in a very comfy chair • Friday: Dakoda


Make sure to have this Fire Extinguishing Aerosol in your RV
fire extinguisherThe First Alert Tundra Fire Extinguishing Aerosol Spray is easier to use and discharges 4 times longer than traditional fire extinguishers. With an aerosol nozzle and portable size, it’s suited for the kitchen, car, garage, boat or RV. The formula wipes away with a damp cloth & is biodegradable. Learn more or order.


Trivia

Every 15 minutes, one person in the U.S. dies because of an infection that antibiotics can no longer treat effectively.

Laugh of the Week

Watch this video (two or three times) of a dog who is VERY excited for fall. There’s no way you won’t smile.

Did you miss last week’s RV Travel?

Read it here | Back issues


RV Travel staff

CONTACT US at editor@RVtravel.com

Editor and Publisher: Chuck Woodbury. Managing editor: Diane McGovern. Senior editors: Emily Woodbury, Russ and Tiña De Maris. Contributing writers: Mike Sokol, Roger Marble, Nanci Dixon, Barry and Monique Zander, Keith Ward, Dave Helgeson, Janet Groene, Julianne Crane, Chris Guld, Machelle James, J.M. Montigel and Andrew Robinson. Social media and special projects director: Jessica Sarvis. Financial affairs director: Gail Meyring. IT wrangler: Kim Christiansen.

FOREVER IN OUR MEMORIES — OUR STAFF MEMBER IN HEAVEN, Gary Bunzer, the RV Doctor.

Honorary Correspondents: Loyal readers who regularly email us leads about news stories and other information and resources that aid our own news-gathering efforts.
• Mike Sherman • George Bliss • Tom and Lois Speirs •  Steve Barnes + others who we will add later. 

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161 Comments

Bonita
5 years ago
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My husband is dying.. he has liver cancer, I am 70 in ok health. We’ve been in our RV traveling 3 years. I do plan on traveling. Why? I love this lifestyle. I know I can continue on. 🇺🇸❤️

Beth
5 years ago
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Yes absolutely I would continue!! I would have to change everything because I am disabled. I would probably do a very small RV or class B
I love our life style and would never want to stop. Although I would purchase a small place to stay when I needed a break.

Bob
5 years ago
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After my wife died i continued living in my motor home and eventually found a new love and traveling companion. I have met many women who have found another women that have lost their husband and now travel together as friends enjoying the rv life.

Harry J Thompson
5 years ago
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My wife left me, felt the same to me, I am going to continue on. She and I were full-timers for 10 years, I have another 10 in me 🙂

Alaska Traveler
5 years ago

I think I would have to stop and that would break my heart. I started because my children are scattered across the states. But after full timing for the last 12 years I know my limitations. Although my oldest is approaching retirement age, she is not interested in RVing. Neither are her younger siblings. I live day to day with the hope that my husband stays healthy and we can continue this wandering lifestyle for many years to come.

Ann Wilson
5 years ago
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My husband died a couple of months ago. In a way I am lucky because I am employed full time year round at a KOA, so I am staying in my RV for now. I’d love to travel more, but would have to downsize, as I don’t think I can pull the big 5th wheel by myself.

Frank Kovach
5 years ago
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What a sad thing to think about first thing in the morning, but I am pretty sure about my answer. Me and the pup would continue on, maybe full time for a while. but if the shoe was on the other foot, the misses would most likely give it up. She doesn’t drive the truck, and knows nothing about mechanical thingys. This topic makes me want to jump in the rig and go somewhere right now!

David Rudick
5 years ago
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Probably not.

Joseph Eafrati
5 years ago
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I know everything about our motorhome. I would continue with a smaller one. My wife could not. She is fearful of going out alone.

Donald N Wright
5 years ago

RV repair shops are out of parts ? OK RVTravel, please tell us where the best RV wrecking yard is in each state. When I ask, it’s a secret….

mike
5 years ago
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my wife passed and I sold the RV–it would just not be the same with no one to share it with–these were the happiest days of our lives–every state except alaska

Melanie
5 years ago
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I’m the one that knows and maintains our class B. Would definitely continue traveling.

Diana Houck
5 years ago
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My husband died and I loved camping and workamping with him. It was the best time ever. I am selling my 5th wheel trailer. I love camping and I would love to continue however the fun part about Rving (to me) is having someone to share the journey with. We camped together for 40 plus years. I don’t think it would be as enjoyable with someone else. I think my days of traveling in an Rv are over, sad to say.

Debbie
5 years ago
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I love to camp, but don’t know if it would be the same without my husband. He is so much a part of the fun of camping.

Dixie Lomax
5 years ago
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We have a class A. I would trade for a class C and keep on rolling.

Drew
5 years ago
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Yes, I’d continue rv,ing.

Marvin Thomasson
5 years ago
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I’m confident that my wife can drive and set up the RV by herself. I think she will keep the rig and travel to see her children and take trips when she feels like it. I believe that men who do all the driving and set up/takedown and wives that let this happen are missing an opportunity to be real pardners in life. Also, what if one pardner is disabled and the other can’t prepare and drive the RV to safety?

Tom Ewing
5 years ago
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When my wife & I are out and about, I help her select her new RV for the after-me life.

Tom Parrett
5 years ago
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I would most likely go back to full time RVing and sell our house…….would love to travel the east coast for a while !!!!

Glenda
5 years ago
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Happened to me in Oct 2015 after 4 1/2 yrs fulltiming in a Casta. The folks at the campground in Branson helped me learn how to hook & backup my trailer. I left for Quartzite 3 wks later. Single men like helping – it’s what they used to do. I found other single ladies to learn from too. Still full timing but less traveling unless caravaning with others. Still the best life!

Linda
5 years ago
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I had a choice. I could sit home and dream of all the places I’d like to go again or venture out to see things that were on my bucket list, or get a small RV that I felt comfortable in, and get her going! I did the latter and I am very content, looking for a new adventure each day.

Catherine
5 years ago
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Took me 2 years after he suddenly died at 58 to even get in the RV. Luckily I had always watched, so I had an idea of what to do. For companionship I joined LoWs, and the club for the same RV.. I’ve also learned to love solo travel for several winter months each year. I miss him terribly, but I’m now doing things, and meeting wonderful people I never would have if he were here and we stayed in the comfortable, “alone” rut we were in.

KATHY SCHEIN
5 years ago
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Part of the joy is having someone to share it with. I still take my grandkids but if/when they outgrow it (get too busy) I probably will stop. Also,it was much easier (tt) to hook up, set up, and tear down with 2 people for short trips.
One thing to consider…the comment was made that this might happen to you. Make no mistake…it WILL happen to you!! If you are a couple, one of you will die before the other…it’s just a matter of which one and when. Don’t dwell on it, but be prepared. And appreciate the time you have now. ❤

Marie
5 years ago
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If Steve died, I would find a seasonal & have someone tow it there. I have no interest in traveling alone but would love a stationary place.

Dale
5 years ago
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Continue with a smaller RV

Sue from Minnesota
5 years ago

I hope that both my husband and I would continue.

Vincee
5 years ago
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Yes, if my wife passed away, I would definitely continue to RV, possibly “lose myself” to the lifestyle. Conversely, if I passed on my word of advice that i’ve told my wife is “sell the RV as fast as possible” without regard to loss of $$.

Rachel
5 years ago
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My husband suddenly died of a heart attack the day he retired. We were going to buy an rv and travel for a year. Six months later knowing very little about them I bought one and two days later took off from Dallas to Glacier Ntl Park, then Yellowstone & Rocky Mnt Ntl Park. Learned along the way! Folks at camp grounds & online made it so helpful. Stayed gone 6 weeks. The worst part was the fear I had before I bought it and took off! I was 62 and made it just fine. I learned a lot about my camper & myself. I’m 65 now and would not hesitate to go Just about anywhere. The majority of fellow RVers are delighted to help you out along the way! You can do it!!

Sally Summerfield
5 years ago
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I definitely would keep RVing. I wouldn’t continue to be full time but I’d have a condo as home base and trade my 44 ft diesel for a classB+. The freedom and peacefulness are addictive.

Linde
5 years ago
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I sold our class A unit, and did not do anything with rving for 2 years. I now bought a used class B and want to try it again solo. I am a little concerned going alone as an older woman

Iris Krisch
5 years ago
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I lost my husband in 2018. I did continue using our 37ft motorhome. I have now met another man that will be traveling with me. I am very happy that I didn’t give up the snowbirding that I love doing so much.

Linda Frechette
5 years ago
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I would definitely sell the trailer and truck and get a van type small motorhome. Our kids, relatives, and friends are all over the country & I would like to be able to visit as long as I am able.

Connie
5 years ago
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If my spouse dies I would immediately sell the RV as they depreciate so fast I couldn’t let it sit around. It’s just to big for me to handle on my own. I might consider getting something smaller. It would probably depend on my financial situation at that time.

Jeffrey Cudd
5 years ago
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Pretty much a very personal question. Some will some won’t.
The more hands on knowledge of the processes of RVing the better odds that they will continue.
Just like boating, if you both are equal in the knowledge of your rig then you can share all jobs which will your RVing experience more fun and less stressful….
And the odds are better that a survivor will carry on.

Linda
5 years ago
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My husband and I were planning on purchasing a motor home and traveling after retirement. He died last December after a 2 year bout with cancer. I ordered that motor home 2 days after he was buried and I plan on continuing with the dream we had together. I’m sure he wouldn’t want me to sit at home and wait to die. I’ll be out venturing to all the places we had talked about visiting. If I can’t figure out how to do something on the RV, I’m sure the owners group forum or youtube, or even fellow RVers will help me figure it out.

Ron Howes
5 years ago

My wife died of cancer in 2019, and the dog and I continue to travel, motorhomes were our primary residence for ten years of wonderful trips. What else could I do?

Right now, preparing to leave our Minnesota lake cabin to visit our son in New Hampshire.

I stay in touch with the 9 children, 18 grandchildren, and 100 friends with the travel blog that keeps the same name: http://www.mytripjournal.com/ronandhazel

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Sandy
5 years ago
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I bought the RV, and camped with Sisters on the Fly. Yes, I would still keep my camper if my husband passed away. I know more about it then he does.

Dianne Belk
5 years ago
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I absolutely love traveling in our RV but often I think “I am glad my husband can fix that”…so many “little” things happen (fuses, latches, mechanical glitches) that if I were alone would be big things. I would not attempt to continue this lifestyle in our current rig (42 ft) but my heart tells me I would get a smaller RV and learn to change a fuse so I could be on the road again!

Edith
5 years ago
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My husband & I had 5th wheels. When he got sick the last time, we bought a Class C so I could drive it, and took a couple trips. After he died, I traded up to a Class A and do not regret it at all. We had been full-time workampers for 8 years when he died, and he knew I was going to continue doing that. And I have for almost 3 years now.

ED
5 years ago
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When that day comes if I am left after the death of my wife I see myself continuing to hit the highways. I will probably move along into a Class C though. I do see if I am the one to go first my wife will sell the TT and retire from the road. She is not the driver and does not even like driving my truck without the trailer.

Steve
5 years ago
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Although we both enjoy our motorhome, and both of us could handle and manage it single-handedly. Neither one of us are interested in continuing without the other. Don’t want to do it solo.

Kathy Stephenson
5 years ago
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I lost my husband of 32 years of marriage a little over a year ago. We always had motorhomes, but I never felt comfortable driving them. I finally decided to I love RVing so am getting a travel trailer. Can’t wait for it to get here.

Beverly
5 years ago
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When my husband passed away I continued to live in the RV for a year. I had to know if it is what I wanted to keep doing. It wasn’t. I advertised the motorhome in RV Trader.com, a couple flew in to see it, bought it and drove it home. I miss my life on the road but I have 4 years of wonderful memories – it was the experience of a lifetime.

Bill Massicotte
5 years ago
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It would be different for some women! My wife would not RV without me I am sure. On the other hand, I would prefer full-timing than taking care of a sticks & bricks home. I repair most things on my MH so that would save me. You can pick and choose your neighbors when you full-time. If you aren’t happy, move or boondock. Works for me.
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Karen Bates
5 years ago
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My husband and I have discussed this and if something were to happen to him, I think I would sell the 5th wheel and truck and get a smaller unit, probably a class C and continue rving.

Jerry
5 years ago
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This has been an on-going conversation as we are both getting into that stage in life. We both agree that the loss of a spouse meant that we would down size and continue our RV lifestyle.

Don
5 years ago
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Me Yes, Her, I doubt it~

Elaine Behrendt
5 years ago
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I continued with our camper van and even took a 3000 mile trip by myself. As the camper and I got older tho, I don’t go as often..don’t want to break down alone (me or the camper). In the meantime..go for it!!

Val Catena
5 years ago
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My partner passed away last year and after much thought I’d like to continue. He handled most outside and repairs though on our 30′ 99 Itasca. Ive decided to downsize and get something newer that i can feel more confident in alone.

Jim Van Riper
5 years ago

I love travelling the country and seeing the sights it has to offer. I would continue traveling on the road with our 25′ travel trailer. My wife however, would not. She doesn’t like driving or pulling the trailer, so she would probably sell it.

Bill
5 years ago
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While the thought is terrifying, I believe I’d continue but definitely in another rig. Likely smaller. And I believe my wife would do the same except in a smaller class A or C. Our 42′ fifth wheel would be too much for her.

Theresa
5 years ago
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We’ve discussed this. I’m a RVer my entire life. Child, spouse, divorcee, new love. I can do everything with our 40’ rig. I always encourage others to learn everything from driv8ng to set up. I’d never boondock, but I’d keep going!

Kathleen
5 years ago
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My husband died 7 years ago, after 16 years of full timing and just after we bought a house. I wasn’t done with our ’97 motorhome. I am still snowbirding in the 40′ towing a car. I love driving the motorhome and traveling to see friends and spaces and places. It will be $$$ that will stop this adventure for me. Enjoy the journey, all of it!

Cindy K SCHNEIDER
5 years ago
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Here’s what I would do. My husband and I have been camping for years. While I would not wish to lose him while we are still able to use our camper, if this were to happen I would trade my camper in for a small unit that I could handle myself. We belong to a camping group that we found through meetup.com. There are many single men and women in this group, some who have lost spouses, so I would have no problem carrying on. For anyone, single or married, looking for others to share their passion for camping and RVing, there are many groups out there. Just do an online search or a search for groups on facebook. The camping community is a great way to have others in your life with common interests, which I would hope would help anyone through the grieving period. Happy Camping!

Cynthia
5 years ago
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I would hope to continue to RV. Although, I might go with a small class A RV instead of the 5th wheel we currently have. I have pulled and setup the 5th wheel but it is extremely difficult for me to back in by my self.

Tommy Molnar
5 years ago

As a kid I remember my folks letting us jump into piles of leaves. It was fun until you had to pull the leaves out of your clothes.

Also, I STILL have a Spike Jones album called “Dinner Music for People Who Aren’t Very Hungry”. It was recorded in “High Fidelity” too . . . I still have my Technics turntable but haven’t used it in decades.

Ruth Plowman
5 years ago
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I have given this alot of thought myself. My husband is not in good health, therefore it is a scary thought. What would I do????? I love camping. Its always so peaceful.

Greg
5 years ago
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At this point in time if my spouse were gone I would probably keep on with the RV lifestyle. There would be a good chance I would liquidate the stick & brick home & go full time.

Art V
5 years ago

Wife and I have discussed this a number of times and we would both continue to RV but would down size from the 38 ft to a smaller unit, possibly something on a Sprinter chassis. “Happy trails to all”

Diane
5 years ago
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Just asked my husband. He said no, for the same reason I say no. We wouldn’t want to RV alone or with anyone else but each other. At our ages probably a few years from hanging it up anyway so hopefully we can retire RV’ing together.

Sheila McMillan
5 years ago
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My husband passed away in 2019. We were Avid RV’rs. After he passed I went out and bought a smaller RV a 2100 Phoenix Cruiser. And yes I still camp with my three cats now.

Donna J Kiley
5 years ago
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I have been continuing to RV for the last 5 years without my late husband. I have found my own rhythm, which include shorter travel days and more stops at historic sites. Wish he was with me, but I am still having fun.

deb
5 years ago
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Get a camper one can handle with least trouble possible. My problem is strength. I eliminated. Whats left that needed strength,found tools.Join a women’s camping group. Will help gain confidence to eventually strike out on your own. Thats what I did. Love it!!

Martha Goudey
5 years ago

We have talked about this a few times, especially after I got sick a year into our travels. My hubby would continue on…he loves our Casita and the lifestyle. I would have to sell the truck and casita as I’m a small person and can’t hook up…or deal with repairs. I might get a van or class a and keep traveling—but honestly can’t imagine doing it without him. We don’t have a house—so I would be faced with a big dilemma.

Anony
5 years ago
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I would not continue to RV in any manner if my husband died. In fact, we will be selling the RV upon our return home in a few weeks.

Lisa
5 years ago
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I started RVing with my dog as my travel companion, and plan to continue like this until I can no longer drive or I die, whichever comes first.

Laura
5 years ago
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My husband and navigator would be a huge loss to me. I know everything about my RV and would probably travel more. Nature therapy.

Terri
5 years ago
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If my husband passed away, I would downsize for sure. Though I do share in driving and setting up our rather large fifth wheel, I would enjoy something smaller for myself. But, I think I would keep RVing. I enjoy it!

Ham Radio
5 years ago
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Consign the item with a local RV dealer. They’ll pick up. If they don’t offer the service, list it for sale.on Craigslist or eBay. Someone will want it if priced to sell.

Jim
5 years ago
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My wife and I have talked a lot about this. We were full timers for 15 years and both of us would keep on the road if the other died.

Ron
5 years ago

Little over 4 yrs ago my wife looked out our kitchen window at our TT & pointed at & said “If you die that thing is just going to sit there”. She was comfortable with our 23’ TT, but the 31’ TT she didn’t want anything to do with it. So we found an RV dealer that let her test drive a class A MH & she loved it. We bought a 33’ gas MH & she drives & parks it more than I do. We had talked to several lady’s before this who were on their own with a class A & they enjoyed the RV life.

DARRELL K COWLES
5 years ago
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God forbid, but I would probably downsize from the 40′ 5th wheel to a 30′-ish Class B, or something I could feel comfortable in, but back in by myself without worry. If I died first, she would sell the rig and dually, and perhaps just travel a bit in a car, not sure she would even do that.

Bob
5 years ago
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I would like to think that I would. I truly love the outdoors, but since so many wonderful times were spent outdoors with my wife creating wonderful memories and enjoying a wonderful life, it would definitely be a struggle

Bob
5 years ago
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Probably would sell the fifth wheel and move to a Class B or C. Would be simpler to maneuver in campsites and while parking.

James Moore
5 years ago
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I would definitely trade in this big class C for a smaller camper van or class B. Don’t need something this big for one person and my dogs

Bonnie Cuddihy
5 years ago
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I am fortunate my husband (80) is healthy and strong. If I were a widow (I’m 72) I’d downsize our 37’ Itasca Suncruiser and continue to travel.

Cathy
5 years ago
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I was in this exact situation 12 years ago. My husband and I had just purchased a new 33′ 5th wheel, used it 3 times, then he suddenly died of a heart attack. I didn’t want to give up rving, but didn’t want to drive his big truck, let alone pull anything. Although I lost a lot of money in the quick change-over, I went to a driveable.

Julianne G Crane
5 years ago
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I would continue RVing.
Currently my husband and I RV with a 19-foot Chalet pop-up trailer and T-100 Toyota pickup. Although I can ‘handle’ this small trailer and feel comfortable towing it — I would sell it and acquire a small class C or class B primarily for safety issues.
I want to be able to easily move between my sleeping quarters and the driving area without needing to go outside my rig.

Dawn
5 years ago
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I would continue. We travel small and light, and I also enjoy car and tent camping. I belong to SOTF, so there will always be someone to go along with.

Elaine Ashton
5 years ago
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I would continue with the RV — in fact — I might have to make it my home. I’m the female but I do all the driving and most of the work inside and out. At least I have a cat and a dog but I would miss my husband big time.

Dave Read
5 years ago
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I tried it for 3 years after my wife died and it just did not work. I am now in the process of selling my 5th wheel trailer

Joe
5 years ago
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On our last RV, I, (husband) did it all, testing, dumping, etc. When we upgraded in 2018, she(wife) did the test drive, can do almost everything I do(as I’m an RV inspector) but can do all of the layman stuff including testing outlets. So if I kick the bucket, she will continue RVing for sure.

Darla
5 years ago
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I’m a woman married to a woman. Our RV is definitely more my thing than hers. I can’t imagine going on without her much less RVing. But if I did manage to go on I would most likely full time RV. She initially said she would not RV. But then said, you never know.

Rick
5 years ago
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Today, I(Man) will probably downsize and keep going, if able. Tomorrow might bring a different perspective. Not looking forward to the prospect.

Deb
5 years ago

My TT would become my winter home somewhere WAY south of the Mason-Dixon line, but I would probably purchase an R-pod or something ALOT smaller to pull behind our 2019 truck.

Herb
5 years ago
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I would probably downsize and continue. Or I’d buy a recreational pontoon boat that I could “camp” on and do some fishing. Either way I’m in the great outdoors!

Goldie
5 years ago
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I really don’t know if I would downsize or just stop RVing. I do know that I really do not want to travel solo in our 45’ Class A, although I know several women who do. It just seems like too much work for me. I’m already in my 70’s so going it alone would be pretty overwhelming.

Andrea
5 years ago
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It would depend. I know how to do most of the maintenance on our small TT, but arthritis, etc. makes it difficult for me to do it myself, so my husband does much of the work. I do find inspiration among the Sisterhood of Sisters on the Fly, where there are many women camping on their own, in everything from tents to vans to large RVs; some full-time or close to it. Some are solo all the time, others have spouses at home.

Dennyg73
5 years ago
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I’ve known several women who kept their Class-A RV and kept on RV’ng. Some chased my Dad for years when Mom died, an many found new soul mates. My Dad stayed single, but truly enjoyed the two RV Clubs he belonged to and traveled with. That’s another idea for you singles … join a RV Club with supportive membership.

MargaretB
5 years ago

My husband passed a few years ago and yes I do continue taking my RV as he was always too scared to drive it so I was used to doing it myself but have never gone trips across states as I worry about driving down unknown roads with a toad and miss having him in the passenger seat to navigate. I’m never lonely but the aloneness of not having him there to enjoy a campfire, great meals & wine, walks etc is extremely sad and is just not the same!

Lynne Potempa
5 years ago
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I would and I did. Husband passed away 7 years ago and I kept the 45ft diesel pusher. Enjoy the RV lifestyle. P.S. I will be 78 next month.

LarryB
5 years ago
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On several facebook groups/forums, I notice far more single women RV-ing than single men. I would guess that some of those older women are widows, and if RV-ers follow the same trend as society, that’s because women live longer than men. As for the question, I, as male, would downsize and hope to meet other ladies for mutual fun and entertainment. Perhaps another partner.

David F.
5 years ago
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Read the question to my wife, and she immediately said you better keep going and take the grandkids once in awhile!!!

Daisy
5 years ago

My husband passed three years ago. I am 61, and I didn’t want to stay in the house any longer. Sold it all and hit the road with my adult daughter. We are having so much fun. But I have to admit to feeling taken advantage of when obtaining service/repairs etc. to my moho. Don’t know how much longer we’ll travel, covid has kinda broken our spirit.

Judy
5 years ago

I only started RVing after my husband died. I bought a rig that fit my needs.

Kenneth Hanigan
5 years ago

I just returned from Lake Tahoe with perfect weather and a beautiful place to be. There was hardly any rvs, campgrounds were almost empty. It is very nice to have an ebike along to get around. Anyone have thoughts on most reasonable yet sturdy rv bike rack for ebikes?

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Hi, Kenneth. You might ask that question on our new Facebook group, Electric bikes for RVing: https://www.facebook.com/groups/rvebikes I’m sure someone can answer your question. 🙂 —Diane at RVtravel.com

Margo S.
5 years ago
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I have thought of this and would keep RVing but in a smaller trailer or truck camper. Love to travel.

Daniel Zwickl
5 years ago

Has anybody heard that most of the Washington state camp grounds are going to a year round reservation system starting September 10th 2020??

Maggie May
5 years ago

I bought a tt after my husband died. I did a fair amount of traveling with it and enjoyed it. The difficulty of finding campsites got me down though. Booking a year out is not my thing. I just turned 65 and decided to sell the trailer and get a summer place in the mountains. I’ll miss it, but anxiety was beginning to take over. I traveled in it for 3 years. Also found that as a woman camping alone, folks were not as friendly. When couples arrive at a campground they are greeted and invited for cocktails. I often just heard you are ALONE?

Judith Pupek
5 years ago
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I would definitely keep RVing in our current rig. It’s a 30’ Winnebago Outlook Class C that I bought with pre-marital money! I’m the camper in the family! As a matter of fact, I didn’t let DH drive it until last summer after I suffered a fall and fractured my back. We had already planned and reserved campsites for a month long cross country trip. My neurosurgeon INSISTED that I should not drive long distances but since I had the ability to lie down and let DH drive, I could still go! He did wonderfully! We decided after that trip that we would bring my dreams of snowboarding this wi yet to fruition!! Yahoo!! No more snowy, dreary gray days for me!!

Bisonwings
5 years ago
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I‘ve been an RVer/camper since 1953 when I was 18 months old. If my wife died tomorrow (god forbid) I’d Grieve awhile then sell the 5th wheel and put a camper on the pickup and go to the places I missed because she didn’t want to go there. Thankfully that won’t take too long and I’d be back at home. I am blessed to have a 1/2 acre at the edge of town very close to a sleepy little river that never floods. So life is good wherever I am!

Pat Pettersen
5 years ago
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My first husband died in 2007 and my second died in 2016. I traded my 33 foot class A force 26 foot class C in 2017. I enjoy traveling in my RV, camping with church group and friends. I spend the winter boondocking in Arizona.

John Blackburn
5 years ago
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Bob and I have been life partners for 41 years. We love the road and should one predecease the other, it is on the road again…

Tom Hudson
5 years ago
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I’m sure I would continue RVing. Probably in a smaller RV. I’m sure that my wife would not, if I were to pass first.

Bill & Judy
5 years ago
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I would either downsize or sell our RV. The traveling wouldn’t be the same and I would find it difficult to justify the expense of an RV for only myself. If my wife precedes me, she would sell the RV as she doesn’t drive it.

Dee Pellandini
5 years ago
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Yes I would continue to RV when my husbanded passes on. I have been RVing for over 47 years and totally enjoy the freedom of travelling with my own home. I also have pets and they come with me. Do not be afraid of enjoying your rv there are many people out there to help you and support your endeavors.

Nigel
5 years ago
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Would continue RV’ing in current (Winnebago Class C diesel) rig and maybe join some groups that have other singles.

Delta Whiskey
5 years ago
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At this point the inspiration for RV travel is mostly my wife’s. That being said, she has no interest or is fearful of all things mechanical or related to towing a 5er. So, for us/her it’s a likely no.

LB
5 years ago
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I would definitely keep traveling in a RV. I would downsize from class C to B. I am a small person and not able to physically do the whole dolly and load the car stuff. A class B would enable me to move about easier stopping all those places my other half says “oh there is no place to park with the car we are towing”, lol.

Edward Rohl
5 years ago
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My wife passed away and I am going to sell my RV.

Cathy
5 years ago
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It is me who loves to RV. I would downsize and continue to see our country.

Laurie Moul
5 years ago
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My husband and I crossed Canada from Vancouver, BC when he retired. He passed away 4 mths later from cancer. I sold our class A, bought a B, and kept on camping.

Jim S.
5 years ago
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I think I would keep ours and continue to travel. Provided I was in good enough health.

Kathy
5 years ago
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RVing has been so much of our lives that I think I would continue alone if I have to. I have questioned women who travel alone at every place I encounter one and admire thier courage. I hope I could do that also. One never knows until faced with the worst thing imaginable.

Barbara
5 years ago
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My husband passed away in 2015 and as full-timers, I kept on. As he was handicapped and could do very little, I did all the driving, set up and break down. Still on the road. Last year did 31 states and over 25,000 miles with my cocker spaniel. I am now 77 years old and hope to do it for a few more years.

PennyPA
5 years ago
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Sig Other (male) died in June. I do plan to continue traveling but on a smaller scale and in a smaller camper. Looking for an inexpensive popup or hybrid as we speak! I still intend to keep our 40′ fifth wheel and live here in Texas. I’m comfortable and feel safe here.

Jeff
5 years ago

if the better half passed away I would continue on camping. I would probably buy a truck camper or just camp in a tent.

Denny
5 years ago
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You bet! Our puppy and kitty would travel with me to wherever. As long as I can drive responsively at an advanced age (over 50)😅. Seriously winter travels into spring or who knows. Playing the same songs that my wife have enjoyed since she was 14 and I was 16 until now.
She wouldn’t. Although she would miss it.

Philip
5 years ago

My wife passed away in November of 2013, I continued to RV until October 2014. It just wasn’t fun anymore. As I’m entering into my 70’s I just can’t do all the work that is required to get on the road again. I kept my RV for another two years thinking something may change, but it didn’t. Sold it in 2016 and continue to read the RV newsletter as I do miss it.

livingboondockingmexicol
5 years ago

I’d become a full time van dweller.

Angela
5 years ago
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When I lost my hubby we had a huge toy hauler that would have never been fun for me to haul so I downsized the travel trailer to something I could tow with my 3/4 ton suburban. The next year I took my boy and his friends on our annual Garner trip

Mike Johnson
5 years ago
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I would probably travel more.

Mitzi Agnew Giles
5 years ago

I was the outdoorswoman. I took the children camping and joined the Florida Trail Association serving in many capacities, and the Assistant Scoutmaster to my son’s Boy Scout troop including several Council positions as well as maintaining troop membership when DS quit Scouting. I bought an all electric Lil Snoozymolded fiberglass trailer when I had a small inheritance-had already started with memory problems and thought to minimize fire risks. DH has accompanied me on trips but I want more time on the road while I’m able. I’m high risk for COVID, and know all too well tomorrow is not guarenteed. When I die, DH will most likely sell the camper.

Roger Lilly
5 years ago
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I would go fulltime again. My wife didn’t like the fulltime life as much as I did so we stopped for her. We continued snow birding but she wanted to stay in one place all Winter and likes the desert in southern AZ. I don’t other than the low humidity and like to travel to new places and stay until were ready to move on and being near our children’s families.
I would most likely buy a well built and reputable Class C or Class A no larger than 30′.

Gail Curland
5 years ago
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My husband and I have two RVs. A 41 foot fifth wheel which we decided was too big to easily travel. We have left that in Florida on a seasonal site. We purchased a 32 foot class A. I drive that everywhere. I have gone completely by myself and have taken my girlfriends and grandchildren as well. I am comfortable going alone, however it is more fun to go with people.

John Dodson
5 years ago
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I would continue the journey, my wife would want me to!
I have several friends who are widows or widowers, they still enjoy camping!

Barbara
5 years ago
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My husband died suddenly last September. I had never pulled the RV and knew it was too big for me. I sold the truck to help pay for funeral expenses and had the RV turned back to the bank. Hardest thing I have had to do since he died, but no way I could continue on. No more RV’s for me.

JGinFL
5 years ago
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I’m so sorry!

Sandra
5 years ago
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I would probably RV more because I’m the one who loves the lifestyle more and am ready to retire. I’d get a smaller RV that I could easily set up, hitch, unhitch, level, maintain, and tow 100% by myself.

Thomas Worley
5 years ago
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When my wife died, I kept the new Seneca for a year (but didn’t use it). I recently sold it and replaced with a 34′ Isata 5. I’ve only been out once, but am already planned another trip for end of September.

Mark
5 years ago
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I would down size the RV most likely, but keep going. Probably a small fiver. Current one is over forty ft long.

Les
5 years ago
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Havesomeone from the nearest campground give short term help. There are services that will transport units if needed. Have camping friends who will fly to you to drive you and the rig Home. Do NOT sell the tow vehicle before you sell the trailer.

rollin
5 years ago
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I’d make more road trips……..

Running from the vacancy in my life…….

But it would be quieter.

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5 years ago
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Hey, Rollin. You almost have haiku going on there. Very deep. Take care. 🙂 —Diane at RVtravel.com

Rayne
5 years ago
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I am from a family of Rver’s throughout my life. My late husband and I also had 2 truck campers (TC), and then 2 different motorhomes down through the years as well. So, a couple of years after being widowed in 2016, I decided to continue the tradition and go full time in an Okanagan TC with 2 slides. It even came with a truck designed to haul it, a Ford 550 with a bed and Crew cab. I love the truck and the TC! But, as you said, it is VERY different traveling without a partner/spouse. I thought I would meet people at the campgrounds like we always had done when camping as a family, but it doesn’t happen that way if you are a woman traveling alone I have found. It is a little odd if you think about it, to have a woman stop by your truck and start admiring it, or your camper perhaps, and have the husband strike up a conversation with her. If I were still part of a couple, that would not be so weird as the guys would end up talking and the women would branch off and talk too.

Nanci Dixon
5 years ago
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Work camping may be a way to keep up the lifestyle but form stronger friendships in the campground with other work campers. We have met several single men and women that continue to travel and work camp alone.

Cindy
5 years ago
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My husband of 32 years died when we were both 52. A few years before he died I had finally convinced him we would love having an RV and purchased a truck camper for our 4-wheel drive truck to enjoy the back country. After he died 13 years ago,I kept using the truck camper on my own, but a 6000 mile cross country trip convinced me I would be more comfortable in a motor home. I bought a 25ft class C and after eight years have just upgraded to a 34ft class A. My pets and I love traveling in our home on wheels. I do get a lot of “ are you alone? I admire you.” I hope to be able to keep on for many more years. I just wish I could get the dog to help with the driving….

Sam
5 years ago
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Check back in a couple of months. Learned at 2:00 am this morning that my wife is symptomatic with COVID, and I am as yet asymptomatic.

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5 years ago
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Good luck to you and your wife, Sam. I hope she recovers quickly and completely, and that you don’t get it. 🙂 —Diane at RVtravel.com

Hermie
5 years ago
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I lost my best friend and wife in April 2020. Everyday is hard, but I decided I couldn’t/ wouldn’t sit in this house everyday. I took our 40’ DRV 5th wheel, which we loved, out once after she left and decided I could handle it by myself, but also that I didn’t want to. Sold it and bought a new Northern Lite slide in truck camper for my dualities. Perfect for one and helps fill the lonely days.

Linda Giguere
5 years ago
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My husband always drives our motorhome. I would have to sell it if anything happened to him. I have never driven it and would be overwhelmed.

LeslieP
5 years ago
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I am not sure if I would have the same enjoyment without my husband. I would have to give it a try but I’d certainly change to a smaller rig right away. I don’t need all the space he likes.

Tammie Gursky
5 years ago
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My husband and I also have a travel trailer and usually I do all the inside set up, take care of pets while he does the outside work. No I don’t think I would be able to connect/disconnect from the truck, put down the jacks. It is also too big for me to drive – only 24 ft . However, loving the ability to travel in my self contained unit, especially with COVID, would probably trade to a drive RV, smaller and keep RVing.

Norma
5 years ago
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My husband died 12 years ago. I brought a 25 ft airstreams and joined th Loners on Wheels It is a national club for singles not just women. I since have traded twice for a class c. And then 5 years ago I brought a brand new class a and I tow a car. Camp one week a month from April tp October wit the Lo W’s

Betty
5 years ago
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My husband died in 2018 of pancreatic cancer. We enjoyed traveling and the rallies. I couldn’t drive our 2001 Class A so I contacted the dealer where we purchased it new. He gave me $2,000 and sold it for $24,000. I miss camping and the friends we made but I don’t know if I’d enjoy it without my husband.

lee
5 years ago
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No way I am stopping. My husband has turned into kind of a fuddy duddy so I am thinking I might venture out on my own. I want to fulfill my dreams before I die. While I would dearly love to go together, we just don’t seem the same anymore. I am 70,

jillie
5 years ago

In 2016 my family and my mother all went to Quebec down thru Maine and Boston and thru Pennsylvannia and home. That was loaded with issues. When we came home my husband was done camping. I wasn’t so sure so I looked at a trailer thinking if he is done I can sell the pop up. He saw that and changed his mind. That is when in 2018 I traded the sleeps three trailer for a bunk model. We went to Colorado, Utah, Arizona and back the bottom portion of Colorado and home. Completed almost my mothers buck list. Then she died last April of cancer. That is when I realized my days of camping with mom was over. I thought about selling it and be done. But my daughter changed my mind and we went camping over the 4th. My daughter fly to NYC to be with friends during the camping trip and I thought wow husband and I can do things together. That was not the case. He curled up in front of his computer and disappeared with no intentions of doing anything camping wise.

jillie
5 years ago
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My addendum to the post? I found out he no longer was interested in camping. My daughter was but not him. So unless she goes he is not interested. Otherwise the trailer sits on our driveway. I guess I need to take the reins and make it the mother daughter and no more my mother comes with us trips Sad really. So my daughter and I are looking at going to Alaska next year without the husband. Then after she moves? I will be going solo. No husband. He would rather sit at home with his computer Me? I am looking at workamping jobs after retirement. So now on to autumn and one more camping trip in a few weeks as a family. Then after that? Solo. RIP mom. It was fun.

steve
5 years ago
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If my wife passed, I would definitely keep camping. It would keep me close

Katy Jackson
5 years ago
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I did! I traded the big truck and 5th wheel for a gently used Class C. I bought a good extended warranty and hit the road for 2.5 years. It was cathartic to afford myself that time to grieve, heal, make new friends and re-discover myself.

Dorothy M
5 years ago
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I would sell the truck and trailer and buy a Class B or C and continue RVing.

Theresa Kresser
5 years ago
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We are selling our house of 16 yrs. Downsizing going fulltime. We have been talking about what if something happens and I’m alone. I want to be in the RV. We have been RVing for 15 years.

Mzlikely
5 years ago

We moved into a 36′ Class A full-time with the intention of traveling, however my husband has severe health issues that I am afraid to be somewhere alone when he gets sick. I do all the hook-ups and break downs. We are now planted in an RV park. If I outlive him I have every intention of getting a smaller rig and getting out there.

Pam
5 years ago
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I would buy a home where I could park the RV in the back, so someone could live in it. I wouldn’t travel with my fifth wheel.

Sheryl Hudgins
5 years ago
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I can’t drive our RV, so if I’m left alone, my RVing days are over.

Judy
5 years ago
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Hopefully, either my husband or I would keep our 26’ Class C with a Jeep towed to continue the adventure. Maybe downsize to a Class B without a towed to simplify.
We both enjoy fly fishing—Sisters on the Fly!

Cindy Trombley
5 years ago
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Ideally, if I am the one left, I would be able to dispose of my current rig and find something smaller. I guess it would also depend on my age and health at the time.

Debra
5 years ago
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I am fine keeping our 32 ft Class C and traveling ,camping alone, but I would probably downsize to a class B. I would not need as much room and I would not feel the need to tow addition vehicle, which usually my wife takes care of.
No I would never stop RVing as long as I was physically able.

Rose
5 years ago
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My husband has been encouraging me to watch and learn so if something does happen to him, I can choose to continue Rving. Last camping trip I set up with his watching over me…Next time I am to do it myself. I would encourage everyone who loves camping to learn and be able to continue enjoying it if something does happen to a spouse.

Sue
5 years ago
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I would like to think I would continue camping should I lose my husband. I’m the one who was more interested and got us started, but he does a lot of the ‘work’, it would depend on how my health is whether I continue.